Everybody loves fireworks, but for young children the fun can easily end in tears. Here are Lorna Clark’s top tips for a great evening.

Choose your display
It is safer to attend an organised display, the fireworks are roped off at a safe distance and you won’t have to risk trying to light them yourself. However a big display might be too much for a small child; with a long way to walk from the car, big crowds and lots of noisy fireworks. Some schools and village halls put on smaller displays which might be more suitable. If you do decide to have fireworks at home choose those marked “animal friendly” as they are far quieter.
Be prepared
Talk to your child about where you are going and what you might see, going out in the dark can be quite an adventure! If your little one doesn’t remember seeing fireworks before it can help to show them a clip like this one. Do explain that real fireworks are louder, but much more fun.

Make sure that you are also prepared for the practicalities of the evening, leave enough time to get to the venue and consider that transport may be slow. Be sure you have the change for entry tickets and treats and have a look for that missing glove now. You don’t want to be watching the fireworks while stuck half a mile away!
If you are going to a large display try to dress children in distinctive clothes, a bright hat in particular can be easier to spot in a crowd. You might want to write your mobile number on a child’s arm so that you can be contacted, just in case you do get separated in the dark.
Rope in another adult
It is a good idea to try to have an extra adult available so that if your little one does get upset by loud bangs and bright flashes they can be taken indoors or back to the car. Agree in advance who will stay with the older children. Even if they are happy to stay you may need to give a young child the reassurance of being held. When you are having fireworks at home it is important to keep hold of little ones so that they can’t run off. No matter how trustworthy they are a small child might want to help and this is one time when they do need to stay well back.
View from a distance
You don’t have to be too close to enjoy fireworks. A small child might feel more secure if they can watch from the safety of an upstairs window. If you are at an organised display try moving to a more distant part of the field or park, away from the noise and crowds.
Handle with care
Many people think of sparklers as safe for children but they can be 15 times hotter than boiling water and are not recommended for under-fives. If you do have sparklers for older children make sure everyone wears gloves and stands still. Have a bucket of water ready and throw used sparklers in as soon as they go out, they may look harmless but they are still hot enough to burn. When a child first holds a sparkler it may help to kneel behind them with your arms around the child. Put your hand over theirs on the sparkler and you can enjoy waving it together without getting into trouble.
Stay warm
With all that fire around it is easy to forget that the most likely problem is getting cold! Standing around after dark can be a chilly business and frosty toes are enough to make anyone miserable. Wrap up warmly with thick socks, hats, jumpers, coats and scarves especially if you are going to an organised display and will be out for a while. Ear muffs or hats with ear flaps are great for keeping warm and can also muffle the noise a little. While you are outside you might want to warm up with a hot drink, and if you are really making an evening of it aim for jacket potatoes, soups and stews to keep you going.
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Further information:
If you are putting on a display at home, you can find advice on staying safe here. http://www.saferfireworks.com/firework_code/index.htm
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